Salsa lessons 1

It was an impulsive decision. A colleague at work was contemplating taking the lesson and I was extremely bored with my life outside of work that I just want to do anything. That’s how we end up at Salsa etc, 6 hours later, at the beginner’s level. I know you might think that’s overkill for a person who’s been dancing as long as I do, but that’s actually the level that the studio owner told me to take after watching me dance with his wife.

So since then, I’ve been just tagging along and showing up to class late 4 times until one day, the teacher finally had an eureka moment and said: “Vous faites de la danse sociale!!”. Yes, he had been looking at me with a puzzled look on his face because I can miraculously catch up to anything that they show me while asking all the newbie questions. Yes, I did try to dumb it down a bit to look clumsy, but that’s because I don’t want the rest of the class to feel bad.

I think I was dancing up to 10% of my usual full performance at class 4 and I let slip a few pointed foot here and there as well as some really sharp spins that newbies can’t do. Put two and two together: someone who can dance a new move like he’s been doing it for his whole life on top of someone who is completely oblivious to salsa moves and you got a ballroom dancer.

The reason why I only dance at 10% is partly due to not wearing my dance shoes, the rest is because I don’t want to discourage new comers. Especially guys, since they are already rare enough in dancing. More importantly, I don’t want to discourage my colleague. There’s a line that dictate whether or not a guy continues dancing, it’s the difference between seeing someone who’s good and think you can catch up and seeing someone who’s so good that it devastated your confidence. I know because I’ve been there and that’s why I am being extra careful.

The other part is because losing my colleague would mean losing the reason why I took up salsa for now. I wanted to see what it’s like to see dancing as an activity to build relationships, instead of one where you compete with your fellow classmates.