Conflicting lifes

The delicate world of dancesport is almost similar to a secret society of bdsm dominant and submissives. Once a person starts to get into dancesport they are immediately aware of the rules of the society structures of dancesport. People at the top are looked up upon as deities and people at the bottom are like weeds… just too much of them to pay attention to all.

It creates an instant dominant-submissive like relationship where the top dancers have power over the less skillful ones. Where awe, fantasy and admiration controls those of the bottom and make them follow the top people like glossy eyed puppies.

Today, I talked to my team manager… my boss… as if she's a little girl. I was very amused at the rapid switching of power.